diff -Nru indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140408/debian/changelog indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140410/debian/changelog
--- indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140408/debian/changelog	2014-04-10 15:29:13.000000000 +0000
+++ indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140410/debian/changelog	2014-04-10 15:29:13.000000000 +0000
@@ -1,3 +1,16 @@
+indicator-messages (13.10.1+14.04.20140410-0ubuntu1) trusty; urgency=low
+
+  [ Lars Uebernickel ]
+  * messages-service: listen to the ApplicationStoppedRunning call Prior
+    to this patch, only applications that exit were marked as "not
+    running". However, this must also happen when an application unrefs
+    it's MessagingMenuApp instance. This is a problem for applications
+    which implement messaging menu integration as a plugin (when
+    unloading the plugin). Specifically, this causes bug #1302930, as
+    telepathy-indicator doesn't exit when empathy exits. (LP: #1302930)
+
+ -- Ubuntu daily release <ps-jenkins@lists.canonical.com>  Thu, 10 Apr 2014 12:07:10 +0000
+
 indicator-messages (13.10.1+14.04.20140408-0ubuntu1) trusty; urgency=low
 
   [ Ted Gould ]
diff -Nru indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140408/src/im-application-list.c indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140410/src/im-application-list.c
--- indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140408/src/im-application-list.c	2014-04-08 16:24:38.000000000 +0000
+++ indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140410/src/im-application-list.c	2014-04-10 12:06:55.000000000 +0000
@@ -1158,6 +1158,12 @@
       return;
     }
 
+  if (!connection && !unique_bus_name && !object_path)
+    {
+      im_application_list_unset_remote (app);
+      return;
+    }
+
   if (app->cancellable)
     {
       gchar *name_owner = NULL;
diff -Nru indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140408/src/messages-service.c indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140410/src/messages-service.c
--- indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140408/src/messages-service.c	2014-04-08 16:24:16.000000000 +0000
+++ indicator-messages-13.10.1+14.04.20140410/src/messages-service.c	2014-04-10 12:06:55.000000000 +0000
@@ -123,6 +123,28 @@
 	return TRUE;
 }
 
+static gboolean
+app_stopped (IndicatorMessagesService *service,
+	     GDBusMethodInvocation *invocation,
+	     const gchar *desktop_id,
+	     gpointer user_data)
+{
+	GDesktopAppInfo *appinfo;
+	const gchar *id;
+
+	appinfo = g_desktop_app_info_new (desktop_id);
+	if (!appinfo)
+		return TRUE;
+
+	id = g_app_info_get_id (G_APP_INFO (appinfo));
+	im_application_list_set_remote (applications, id, NULL, NULL, NULL);
+	indicator_messages_service_complete_application_stopped_running (service, invocation);
+
+	g_object_unref (appinfo);
+
+	return TRUE;
+}
+
 /* The status has been set by the user, let's tell the world! */
 static void
 status_set_by_user (ImApplicationList * list, const gchar * status, gpointer user_data)
@@ -231,6 +253,8 @@
 			  G_CALLBACK (unregister_application), NULL);
 	g_signal_connect (messages_service, "handle-set-status",
 			  G_CALLBACK (set_status), NULL);
+	g_signal_connect (messages_service, "handle-application-stopped-running",
+			  G_CALLBACK (app_stopped), NULL);
 
 	applications = im_application_list_new ();
 	g_signal_connect (applications, "status-set",