sound only from 2 speakers

For clarity, the sole contents of ~/.asoundrc should be the pcm.!default {} snippet you wish to use.

Please reproduce the error using "speaker-test -c4" after you've made the above modification.

Note also that, according to your "aplay -l" from that particular boot, hw:0 is the built-in HDA and hw:1 is the Live. Your pcm.!default {} snippet assumes hw:0, which is probably not what you intend. You can use the Live in two ways. One, you can use "surround51:1" instead of "surround51" in the pcm.!default {} snippet. Two, you can tell snd.ko, via a module parameter, that you always want the Live driver to occupy slot 0 (hw:0) with: echo options snd slots=snd-emu10k1,snd-hda-intel|sudo tee -a /etc/modprobe.d/always_sblive_default.conf

I'm sorry but I'm not quite clear on what you are suggesting should be in in my ~/.asoundrc. Could you spell it out for me?

I'll proceed presuming that you want your SB Live to be the default card always, and we'll call that hw:0 for alsa-kernel and alsa-lib.

You should make these two modifications:

1) Open a Terminal, and issue: echo options snd slots=snd-emu10k1,snd-hda-intel|sudo tee -a /etc/modprobe.d/always_sblive_default.conf

2) Edit your ~/.asoundrc to read as follows:
# ALSA library configuration file

# Include settings that are under the control of asoundconf(1).
# (To disable these settings, comment out this line.)
#</home/theman/.asoundrc.asoundconf>
# http://ph.ubuntuforums.com/showthread.php?s=1624d7a5cf7d26ee1f34a9bf732a92cd&t=161817&page=3
pcm.!default {
  type plug
  slave.pcm "surround51"
  slave.channels 4
  route_policy duplicate
}

(Essentially, you don't want ~/.asoundrc.asoundconf at all. You can erase it if doing so suits you.)

After you've made the above two modifications, you may either reboot or issue "sudo /sbin/alsa force-reload" to effect the changes.

Because PCI audio device enumeration is nondeterministic during boot, either the onboard (HDA) or the peripheral (SB Live) will claim the first audio card slot (hw:0). The root of the problem seems to be as follows:

1) Initially hw:0 was the peripheral (SB Live) but shifted to hw:1 during some nondeterministic sequence of subsequent boots;
2) The user's commented-out pcm.!default entries in ~/.asoundrc assumes that hw:0 is always the peripheral (SB Live);
3) Upon the onboard (HDA) assuming hw:1, an attempt was made to recover the peripheral as the default by issuing "asoundconf set-default-card Live" (or some variant, including manually editing ~/.asoundrc.asoundconf);
4) The user's ~/.asoundrc.asoundconf does not have entries for duplicate routing as in the user's original commented-out pcm.!defaults entries in ~/.asoundrc.